I've noticed that one (perhaps unintended on your part, dear readers) side-effect of infrequent posting on my part is an increase in emails I receive that have the theme "I'm looking through the archives and thanks, it's really helping me." [Followed by, as the author says in Backyard Sugarin'
Apart from being just really sweet and affirming, these emails have been reminding me to remind you of something, something I've downplayed in my actual posts lately, just because it gets embarrassing to say every time --